Are You Banging Your Head Against a Brick Wall Trying To Get Others To Change?
Sometimes getting people to do things differently is like banging your head against a brick wall. It's stressful, painful and it's nice when you stop!You need people to buy into your ideas right?
It could be your staff, colleagues, partner, kids, trainees, customers or even your boss. You know that if you can't get people to see things differently your effectiveness is severely limited-and so is your success.
You're almost there, but there's something missing
You have good communication skills, but sometimes you could use a bit of 'magic' to help you handle what you're facing in your work or personal life. It's like you're in one bubble and they're in another. You can't quite get into their bubble - and they can't quite get into your bubble.You know that if they really understood, they would be as enthusiastic and passionate as you.
And that's what you truly want-to ignite that passion, enthusiasm and motivation - to be a positive influencer. So gaining mastery in understanding how people 'tick', how they connect and interact, would help a lot. It would make you more effective if you knew how to change the mindset that drives their behaviour.
It's stopping you fulfilling your true potential.
You want to effect change AND you want to stay 'real' and true to yourself.
Yet sometimes it feels like you're anything BUT real. When you reflect on your attempts to change their behaviour, you recognise that you've been manipulative.
Or you've lost your temper.
Or simply bulldozed the changes needed.
Or left things as they are to avoid conflict or confrontation.
And those ways haven't worked
You feel uncomfortable because you know, at a deep level, that what you're doing is not working. It goes so much against the grain when you're not being true to yourself. And while you believe you're avoiding conflict by evading those 'negative' conversations, you're really just replacing them with imaginary 'negative' conversations in your own head!
You've probably already tried other things and not achieved the results you wanted.
You've learnt and know lots of stuff - but you don't know how to live it. Without having the techniques to move you forward and the practical integration to live it on a daily basis, you continue to search for something else that’s going to give you what you want...
It's time to stop banging your head!
Be real, effective and successful!
Maybe you've heard that Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) can help.
There are so many people talking about NLP and it seems to have so many versions. It's easy to get confused about exactly how it applies to you. You might have had your interest piqued by some of the 'cute and sexy' techniques that will help you 'read' people better or get rid of a phobia in a few minutes. While NLP will deliver those things, it is much, more than a bunch of techniques. NLP is a curriculum which builds on itself, within a framework. It has become such a vast field that it applies to virtually all areas of your life. And of course, that just makes it sound like a 'cure all' - and even more confusing! Some clarification would be useful...
Some ways NLP can work for you:
- How to accurately read and respond to people.
- Ask simple and precise questions to get to the very root of a problem, avoiding going round and round in circles until you're dizzy and need a lie down!
- Distance yourself from unpleasant memories or change limiting beliefs that might be holding you back.
A specific example is often more useful than a hundred definitions. Therefore, you'll find articles about NLP on this site. Some include case studies. Each one deals with a different aspect of NLP so you can start to get a feel for and understand its deeper and wider applications.
Take some bite sized chunks
NLP ranges across many fields, so taking some bite sized chunks will be more useful than trying to get your head around the many vague definitions that describe NLP. Get the free eBook that comes with your subscription and you can start applying some NLP straight away and notice how well it works for you.
Some people are worried that NLP is a way of 'manipulating' people.
NLP is a tool kit to help you live the life you want to live, in the way you want to live it. As with any tool kit, it is the skill of the user which determines the success or otherwise of the output. If you want to learn NLP to manipulate others, please visit another other web site because you won't find what you're looking for here.
If you're looking for ways to be more successful AND be authentic, read on...
I'll give you practical, down-to-earth techniques that really work-for free! And you can begin straight away. That means you can develop your skills, be authentic and effect change without compromising your integrity. You can fulfill your true potential.
Others have already done it!
Look over there on the right. That's feedback from people who are perhaps like you. They were willing to experience change in a way they suspected was a bit different, unconventional and more quirky than anything they'd experienced before. They became more effective and authentic. In the process they discovered hidden talents, increased behavioural flexibility, limitless potential and new ways of being. And, they had FUN doing it!
So if you're ready - where do you start?
START RIGHT HERE!
Introducing the MetaMorphosis Model:
A proven way to achieve the results you desire and become more of who you are - in many ways and on many levels.
Hi, my name is Stephanie Philp. I'm a certifying trainer of NLP. I've done a lot of research and testing - much of it as a self appointed guinea pig! You can take advantage of the thousand's of hours of work that's the essence of what I've learned over many years of study, training and coaching people in New Zealand and Europe.I've developed the MetaMorphosis Model to give you easy techniques so you can:
• Discover what's really holding you back (it's not what you think!)
• Achieve deeper, lasting change with yourself and others
• Develop your true potential.
• Have fun doing it
• In short - Become Your Self!
Begin with the free eBook
As a first step, subscribe to MetaMoreTalk and then you can download the free eBook, 'The NLP Eye Accessing Cues?' The Not-So-Hidden Secrets of the Mind. It'll give you fundamental knowledge of a critical NLP skill which you'll be able to use and test out for yourself immediately. I'm sure you'll find it useful, 'eye-opening'
and that it'll whet your appetite for more.Four reasons you'll find MetaMoreTalk useful:
Reason 1: It's filled with articles and practical information.
Reason 2: You'll get deeper insights into what holds you back from getting the results you want, as well as what you can do to change things.
Reason 3: You don't have time to read a stack of books. Quick, easy and fun-to-read articles give you relevant, practical stuff you can use.
Reason 4: Humour. There's always a joke or something humorous in every issue of MetaMoreTalk. Why humour? Because humour and laughter are good for you. Having a laugh causes 'happy' chemicals to flood your brain. So you experience a drug free high!
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Next, I suggest you head to the Goodies section
It's called the Goodies section for a reason. There is a deceptively large amount of information here; articles, FAQ's and much, much more. Take a look and listen (there's also some audio) for yourself. Most people also enjoy the Humour section. In any case, please look around the site and feel free to contact me with any questions that come up for you. Or send me some more jokes :). Of course if you're keen to leap ahead, there are plenty of other possibilities on this site, so you can move forward at your own pace.
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